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For every one in Marriage, or hoping to be married in the future, conflict resolution is an aspect/ skill you need to consider educating yourself about, Most marriages don’t end because they are devoid of love, but because they have failed to resolve the conflicts that arose during their time in the marriage,
For every one in Marriage, or hoping to be married in the future, conflict resolution is an aspect/ skill you need to consider educating yourself about, Most marriages don’t end because they are devoid of love, but because they have failed to resolve the conflicts that arose during their time in the marriage,
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For every relationship, disagreements are bound to happen, emotions can run high, and the need to fight may be grave, but knowing each other’s responsibility in resolving the conflict is very vital, Here are a few ways that you and your partner can resolve conflicts amicably and effectively;
For every relationship, disagreements are bound to happen, emotions can run high, and the need to fight may be grave, but knowing each other’s responsibility in resolving the conflict is very vital, Here are a few ways that you and your partner can resolve conflicts amicably and effectively;
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1. Investigation
Finding out all the facts and being very clear of what the conflict is about is the most important first step. There should be no blame pinned on each other at this stage. It helps if both parties come to an agreement that we need to resolve this and move past it.
1. Investigation
Finding out all the facts and being very clear of what the conflict is about is the most important first step. There should be no blame pinned on each other at this stage. It helps if both parties come to an agreement that we need to resolve this and move past it.
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2. Choosing one issue at a time,
If many issues arise, pick the most pressing issue to work on, after that, go over the others as well, do not leave any stone unturned.
3. Brainstorm for solutions
This stage is where the couple will brainstorm and come up with possible solutions to the said problem. It’s very tempting to want to maintain the blame game, but stop the blame and find the solution.
2. Choosing one issue at a time,
If many issues arise, pick the most pressing issue to work on, after that, go over the others as well, do not leave any stone unturned.
3. Brainstorm for solutions
This stage is where the couple will brainstorm and come up with possible solutions to the said problem. It’s very tempting to want to maintain the blame game, but stop the blame and find the solution.
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4. Agree on a solution, I sometimes call this the “resolution bilateral agreement” 😂🤗, it just shouldn’t be one sided. The couple must decide on the most viable solution and plan when and how to execute it. If both fail to agree, execution will be impossible.
5. Do/Carry out the solution
This is the action through which the couple will actually carry out the solution plan. This requires both parties to forgive and forget, focus on the good and forget the bad. Always remember that there is a problem, but its neither of you.
4. Agree on a solution, I sometimes call this the “resolution bilateral agreement” 😂🤗, it just shouldn’t be one sided. The couple must decide on the most viable solution and plan when and how to execute it. If both fail to agree, execution will be impossible.
5. Do/Carry out the solution
This is the action through which the couple will actually carry out the solution plan. This requires both parties to forgive and forget, focus on the good and forget the bad. Always remember that there is a problem, but its neither of you.
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6. Lastly, Follow-up
The couple should then take time to follow-up and review if the selected solution works. Make adjustments if needed, or even consider using another strategy if the one chosen ain’t working at all.
I hope this helps you to over come a conflict. Or save your relationship. Also share this with someone 🤩🤗
6. Lastly, Follow-up
The couple should then take time to follow-up and review if the selected solution works. Make adjustments if needed, or even consider using another strategy if the one chosen ain’t working at all.
I hope this helps you to over come a conflict. Or save your relationship. Also share this with someone 🤩🤗
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