A common perception is that hope is everything as it gives us a purpose to live. However, what is often overlooked is that having grandiose hopes can make it difficult to settle for anything less than what we envision, leading to a lifetime of discontent.
Should we abandon #Hope?

Abandoning hope doesn't resonate well with our religious beliefs. The possible fix here is that instead of having grandiose hopes, keep the bar of hopes relatively lower.
You'll suddenly notice yourself practicing gratitude as whatever you'll get beyond your hope'll be a bonus.

Plz acknowledge that #miracles don't happen for everyone. People often argue that you'll get everything that's written in fate. Okay but, what about not getting things becoz they're not written in ur fate?
We often strive to pick 1 option out of a set of choices we're offered.

But what if none of offered options in a particular case is written in our fate?
That is also #Fate. We may make peace with ourselves the sooner we acknowledge this neglected role of fate in situations where we don't get what we hoped for becoz it was never a part of our fate.