Dear Woman,
You are not a commodity.
Before I continue, I recognise that s£x in exchange for money is a budding career so only women who have come out to officially declare themselves as prostitutes or escorts are exempted from this post.
A #Thread
You are not a commodity.
Before I continue, I recognise that s£x in exchange for money is a budding career so only women who have come out to officially declare themselves as prostitutes or escorts are exempted from this post.
A #Thread
When you put yourself out there to say, “A man needs to supply all my needs if he wants to be with me,” what you’re saying is, “men, for every unit of “labour” time spent with you, around you, on you, under you, I will accept cash in exchange. If not, you are not worth it.”
So in exchange, some men will say, “I have bought your services as a girlfriend/wife/side piece in which during this period, I can do as I please and you have no right to object. You have been paid for.”
As it’s typical of many women,you become emotionally dependent on this man,
As it’s typical of many women,you become emotionally dependent on this man,
you soon forget that you came into the situation as a commodity. Men won’t forget though, you have given them exactly what they want, freedom.
He wanted to have you on his side, to be a forever partner in love and life but you said you wanted to be a slave,
He wanted to have you on his side, to be a forever partner in love and life but you said you wanted to be a slave,
so you handed over your self-esteem and your soul. You’re not better than a piece of furniture in his home, you’re useful but not irreplaceable.
Because of the society we are in today, you’re under the false presumption that greed and illegitimate prejudices are okay.
Because of the society we are in today, you’re under the false presumption that greed and illegitimate prejudices are okay.
You say, “men also want women because they’re pretty or have good bodies, so?” This isn’t a valid reason to want to become a partner with anyone for life or long term but today, I’m talking to the women.
You say, “This has worked for many others and it will work for me.”
You say, “This has worked for many others and it will work for me.”
Go and ask the many aunties that have gone before you, that married or dated for money ONLY, ask them if it truly worked for them and hopefully, they’ll tell you the truth.
In reality, I know at least 80% of Nigerian women didn’t grow up rich,
In reality, I know at least 80% of Nigerian women didn’t grow up rich,
did you put your father under pressure to make so much money to sustain you? Did your mother do the same? Why is money so loudly worshipped as though it’s something you’ve never done without? As though it’s something you can’t make on your own?
I smell a lack of contentment.
I smell a lack of contentment.
I can already hear you whisper in my ear, “the money I make won’t buy me a Fendi bag NOW.” Even though you can save gradually to get the bag, you still want it NOW because you validate your worth by carrying a trending bag, NOW. Or by going to that exotic destination, NOW.
Be honest with yourself, would you care for these things if no one would notice?
You’re capable of so much, you’re so amazing and hardworking, talented and smart that if you would apply yourself and focus, you’ll make your own money, a lot of it.
You’re capable of so much, you’re so amazing and hardworking, talented and smart that if you would apply yourself and focus, you’ll make your own money, a lot of it.
If you meet a rich man who’s a good person and matches your heart's desires in a partner,amazing! Life is easier lived with money. I just hope money isn’t the first reason you decide to be with the person.
FYI:There’re now more women who want to exchange their “time” for money,
FYI:There’re now more women who want to exchange their “time” for money,
so due to an oversupply of the same commodity, prices have dropped.
However, for the woman who is out of the circle of ‘commodities,’ she’s being given all just because she’s rare and her self-worth can’t be bought.
#DANG
However, for the woman who is out of the circle of ‘commodities,’ she’s being given all just because she’s rare and her self-worth can’t be bought.
#DANG
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