Why love is for women and weak men.
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The purpose of this thread will not be about how men should have zero feelings of love or that men should not want to be loved. We all have some feelings, and we will have some feelings of love. This is normal. But a man should not actively seek to be loved. Read on.
As men we want women to love us because we know that women are only loyal to men they love. Love is indeed important in sexual selection. But what most men do not realize is how to get deep love from their women. They go about it all wrong.
How does a child seek affection? He seeks affection by open and innocent behaviorism. When others do take a young boy seriously, they will build an emotional attachment to him. This is why some men act amusing and like clowns, they want people to have affection for them.
When a young boy becomes a teenager or young man, he will want to seek respect instead of affection. He will want to be taken seriously. The more seriously we want people to take us the more we must be okay with losing their affections. It is a trade off.
A lot of men in relationships with women will be okay with women disrespecting them because they believe they are building affection by being goofy and childlike in their behaviorism. But these men are in reality building "Brother like" affection and not deep love.
What these men do not understand is that women only truly love men they respect. Women only truly love men they take seriously. This is what women will call being "IN love" -- It is a deep romantic connection that secures the most powerful loyalty.
This means that a man who wants the greatest love of all must seek not affection but respect. It is respect that builds the greatest love in a woman's heart. A woman will lose herself in love with a man that does not put up with disrespect. Women do not fall in love with clowns.
Learn and practice frame. Masculine frame means a man acts in such a way as to seek respect for his authority. Women fall madly in love with frame, not the affection seeking boy in a man's heart. Women fall madly in love with strength, not weakness. Keep getting stronger.
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Our forgotten generation of fatherless men had to learn frame the hard way.
Frame is essential for living a dignified life as a man.
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Frame is essential for living a dignified life as a man.
The Wall Speaks is an easy to read guide on learning masculine frame.
amazon.com
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