I was to write something about female friendships and how men should handle them or avoid them for the sake of their peace but will do it earlier because of yesterday's tweet.
Lemme be clear about it to avoid confusion and how you might perceive it is upto you.
A Thread
Lemme be clear about it to avoid confusion and how you might perceive it is upto you.
A Thread
Yesterday I was ambushed by an irate feminist, who seems to be sad and unloved (subjective) with a "mental health expert" markings on her bio (these people know nothing about mental health) after I tweeted something about men avoiding female friendships.
To be clear, many men are suffering in denial. Ever seen a guy..there is always that one guy..who has a flock of ladies in campus and seems happy? Truth be told, most of those men are termed as "bffs".."a leaning shoulder", for many females. Most of these men are weak and..
..shy, because deep inside, they want to hit it or are hitting on the ladies but have been already zoned. This age is usually between 18-25, (if you are past this age and still zoned, you are the problem), and most of them are taken advantage of. Bffs..who are locally referred...
..as simps, have never known a way to break away from such cycles. Because they are mostly pampered with sweet nothings and funny names but will never , and never, stand a chance of being with one of the ladies. Alright, let me be a realist..
Most female friendships (men and women) are majorly beneficial. This, I agree. Because most ladies trust a man more than their fellow ladies (snakes). So they can relate. I want to be particular about these female friendships though.
My experience. Back then, when I was young and stupid, I used to have a couple of female friends. I might have posted sometime back about a lady who used to even text me to update her on my WhatsApp status. (Outrageous, right). I used to do itπ. Silly me. Others used to ask...
..a favor. Maybe monetary, maybe advises, maybe to talk about her relationship woes and maybe sometimes, family issues. Yes, this is something understandable. You can always lend a leaning shoulder. We all handle stress differently and something I knew about ladies...
..is that they will feel better after opening up or saying something that is bothering them. Most men we battle our own shit. The problem now comes when you have many ladies that you listen to their problems. It becomes overwhelmingly heavy on you. Just imagine the stress...
..it can subject you listening to various weird, happy and sad stories daily. Of course it will have an impact on you. The main problem that I observed with this ladies is that, they will keep you close and deny you coochie and when you begin to hunt elsewhere..
..they feel offended that you have forsaken them. Are you a pet? Are you a cow tethered? Why are they curtailing your freedom? Yes. They need you. They fear to lose you. They fear to be alone and at the same time, they won't have sex with you. Why???. You might ask.
"We shall break the wonderful thing we have together". What is that? Anyway. Lemme tell you how I hacked it(I have seen things in life). Minimise your cycle. Make them less than 5 even. And add your sisters, cousins and mothers on the list. Don't allow yourself to be..
..entangled in the so called female friendships. If women were so good, why are most of the female relationships amongst them fake and shitty? I do respect men's friendship because it is deeper( men, I know you relate).
First, my mantra, if you have ever hit on a lady, then she rejects you, don't allow any kind of friendship afterwards. Of course don't be a bitch about it you can converse with her, but maintain boundaries. Keep it simple and quick. Ukiendanga. They will keep off
Never allow a lady who rejected you, or the one who refuted your advances to be your friend. Female friendships should start purely something else like business. Should be symbiotic. Don't talk about sex. I have three of them here, female friends. They know, we shy away from...
..sexual topics and ti normally listen to their grievances. One of the ladies here, whom I was clearly honest, and told her ,I have enough female siblings, I don't her as a friend, went ahead and blocked me. A couple of them always does that. I am always happy. Therapeutic.
Nothing beats the feeling of forgetting a lady faster than you knew her. On the contrary, they are amazing ladies guys. With pure souls. I landed something extremely important in my life because of a lady. And i will never shy away to mention her @_Fibbz . Such ladies..
..will always update you on something that can impact positively on your life. Last year, when I was selling potatoes here, many ladies promoted me than males. One, an extremely kind and amazing, bought more than ten bags and supplemented me with 25k more when...
..something emergent came late last year. Before I forget, my late friend did give my friend a job
See what I am talking about. Most ladies in Kenya misuse men
Let's be honest guys.
See what I am talking about. Most ladies in Kenya misuse men
Let's be honest guys.
"Babe ninunulie hii" "BFF nifanyie hii" "please I need a favor " Avoid those. Run away. Bladifaken. Stop misusing good men. Lemme be honest with you ladies, every man, (except your dad and brothers), will always want to hit that coochie. Free advice. No matter how you zone them.
And guys, stop being nice to those kind of miserable ladies. They have ways to confuse you. Be real. You are a fucking man. Be in control. Don't be hoodwinked because someone has a nice body, pretty and ass or fire coochie( this info uwa mnapewa). Just tell them off
They will think it is all jokes but atleast your piece of mind is more important. Always stand by what makes you a man. Infact, women hate feminine men, trust me on these. Be weak and a simp. You will never hit. Unless sympathy coochie. Are you an hyena or a lion?
Anyway, before I go ballistic and all guns blazing, lemme leave it all here. Men, stop being used. Women, stop using men. Reciprocate the same energy you are meted with. There are good ladies though. A small percentage. If you find such, treasure them. Never allow...
..yourself to be a BFF to someone who has a real boyfriend who does(censored) to her. Just avoid them. They will feel you are being insensitive but, a win win situation for me.
As I finish this, I am unashamedly unapologetic you enraged feminists and other mfs. We are not here to please you or massage your fragile ego you unloved shitheads
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